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Semen retention attention!

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 Always makes me laugh the amount of attention my semen retention posts get. I'm glad I put them out though as I have had a few deep personal messages from men saying thank you as my posts have really helped them. Its 10 days today that I have been on semen retention after my breakup and over these 10 days I have been meditating for 15 mins twice a day. I have not given into any desire at all. For me when we are gong through a hard time giving into any type of desire is like letting a demon trojan horse into the mind. Slowly it lets in more and more self gratifications and we carry on with this state of mind going from pleasure to shame and pain. Like when I think back when I was a drinker, you went out for a few pints with the intention of just a few then home. A few turns into 10, then the cocaine comes out and your partying all night. You then wake up the next day and have a few more drinks just to take the edge of things, order crap food and lie around feeling sorry for yoursel...

Out of a muddy pond blooms a lotus flower

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 It will be 6 years ago this month I started The Phantom Planter and it will be 7 years this month also that I gave up alcohol. Just shows one year away from the drink and look what was created. No way would I have ever have started The Phantom Planter if I was still on the drink. It was also the day I setup The Phantom Planter that I gave up smoking weed too after probably 20 years of smoking daily. I knew the weed would have made me second guess so many things that I was wanting to write on here. I had stuff in my head I wanted to express and as many of you know the weed can make you a bit bipolar at times. I know what would have happened, I would got up in the morning, do my ritual then write a deep spiritual post, then later that day smoked some weed and read back on the post thinking what type of weirdo was I. What was I thinking! Weed does these weird f**ked up things to the mind. Before I setup The Phantom Planter I had never written anything in my life. I never had the conf...

Dont be a W**ker!

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 Had to laugh yesterday with my men only post, the first lot of comments were from women, Think the majority of comments were from women overall. It was good to read all the different opinions about this though, thank you. Semen retention is something that has for years now kept on popping up in my life learning. Years ago I used to listen to Napoleon Hill who wrote the book think and grow rich. He was probably one of the first business motivators of his time and he used to talk about sexual energy and how if we refrain we can transmute that energy into bettering our lives. He says we must master this sexual energy and not be a slave to it. As I said yesterday last time I went 120 days retaining I mastered a couple of things I was trying to do for years, the muscle up and pistol squat. Many people have different opinions on this and some think its absolute BS.  But for me the ones that thinks its BS I do not aspire to be like them in anyway. I mean some of the negative comment...

For men only to read

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 *****THIS IS A MEN ONLY POST***** Good morning men, I want to talk with you about semen retention and how I believe that over ejaculation is probably in my opinion one of the biggest causes of mens mental health problems today. For years now I have been experimenting with celibacy, reading in depth about the benefits of brahmacharya which is the vow of celibacy that monks take and the benefits its believed to do to our bodies and consciousness. Carl Jung who was one of the greatest psychotherapist ever did lots of research into the effects that over ejaculation has on men, saying that right after a man releases his semen he goes straight into period like symptoms similar to woman. He reported that when a man releases we are completely messing up our hormonal balance and then we feel weak emotionally and physically. I totally agree with what Carl Jung says about being emotionally weak with too much ejaculation. I've observed these patterns in myself over the years, when going throu...

Lost my gallop

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 Good morning guys,  For the past while I haven't been myself. Lost my gallop as my Delboy Dad would have said.  I've been going through a break up after 2 years and it stings!  I loved this woman and still do love her. I always joked with her that I was going to write a book about her called Karmic Result.  Honestly though, the dream woman I've always thought of she was it and more.  She also brought out a different type of love and affection in me I never knew I had.  I messed it up though and I'll have to live with it.  Cant thank her enough though for one of the most beautiful experiences in my life.  Going to head into celibate monk mode here for a bit and get a grip of my emotions. They are bit f**ked right now.  From experience the last thing I want to be doing when feeling like this is self soothing or self gratifying. That just prolongs the pain and healing.  Also some selfless service karma yoga in means of tree planting w...

Busy winter coming up

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 Not long now until we start to plant up our spiral oak grove and the heritage Irish orchard we are expanding.  Busy winter here coming up. Love planting trees in winter when they are dormant, then in springtime its pure excitement waiting on them come to life.  Never did I think I would get so much joy from planting trees.  First tree I ever phantom planted was about 10 years ago. It was an apple tree just randomly planted along the side of the road in the heart of Belfast.  I planted this for a laugh just to see what would happen.  Back then I was an alcoholic and drug addict. Have no idea why I went and done this, but me and my mate and all the kids had some fun doing.  Back then I was right in the thick of the underworld, was even worse than what I was growing up. Things weren't good. I had to leave the country for a bit and lost my businesses and house.  Tough times tough measures is how I was seeing thing.  Its amazing how much negativi...

No more UK shipments

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 Good morning guys, just to let you know my Buddha Beds website won't be delivering to the UK anymore.  UPS was the only company that delivered mattresses and to be honest if I carried on using them I would be bankrupted.  The amount of surcharges this company takes from your account is unreal. And there is no other other way to pay them other than give them complete access to your account!!! You measure and weigh a box, print the docket, they put a hold on  your account for say £40 then when delivered they just take £160 saying its incurred an extra handling charge on the way! WTF!!! On top of all that the amount mattresses that has went missing also has been a great loss to me too.  Never again will I deal with UPS!!!  I always say that Al Capone had more compassion and understanding than some of these corporate crooks.  I have lost a fortune dealing with this company. Will put it down to a very bad experience. Still our website is delivering all ove...